5 Shocking Moments in Baby Shower DUI Arrest: “I Just Want to Go Home”

By Sarah Bennett

In a bizarre Baby Shower DUI Arrest that has stunned local residents, a New Jersey woman’s night of celebration ended in a jail cell after she allegedly smashed her car into a concrete median. The incident unfolded on the dark roads of Freehold Township, New Jersey. What started as a report of a vehicle striking a Jersey barrier quickly escalated into a tense confrontation between officers and 41-year-old Diana A. Carson. Despite missing a side mirror and driving on a flat tire, Carson insisted she was just “tired” and trying to get home from a baby shower.

Watch: Baby Shower DUI Arrest Caught on Camera

Note: Pay close attention to the timestamp at 00:01:40 where Carson admits to hitting “the wall over there” but claims she is just tired.

Full Story: How the Incident Unfolded

The Crash and Initial Stop

The situation began late at night on November 1, 2025, when Freehold Township Police located a vehicle that had struck a median. Officer Drum arrived at the scene to find the car with significant damage, including a flat tire and a missing mirror.

When the officer approached the window, the smell of alcohol was immediate. “It reeks like alcohol,” one officer noted to another, adding that Carson had a cup with “some kind of beverage” in the holder. When asked where she was coming from, Carson repeatedly mentioned she had been at a baby shower.

“I’m Just Tired”

Carson appeared confused and lethargic. When the officer asked what happened, she admitted, “I know I… It was the accident”. However, she quickly pivoted to excuses. “I’m tired. I want to go home,” she pleaded.

When asked for her registration, the situation became chaotic. She handed over the wrong documents multiple times. “This is just your insurance and your license,” the officer corrected her gently.

Failed Field Sobriety Tests

Officers asked Carson to step out of the vehicle to perform standard field sobriety tests. She was wearing heels but insisted, “I’ve walked the shoes all day long… I’m good”.

The Baby Shower DUI Arrest took a turn during the “Walk and Turn” test. The officer instructed her to take nine heel-to-toe steps. Carson struggled to follow the directions, saying, “I can’t do what you do” before the test even fully began. She eventually gave up, telling officers, “You say I walk… I can’t walk anyway”.

The Meltdown Over the Car

Once placed in handcuffs, Carson became distraught—not over the jail time, but about her car being towed. “You took my heart… That’s my car,” she cried out. Officers explained that under New Jersey law (John’s Law), the vehicle must be impounded for a minimum of 12 hours.

Carson’s mood swung wildly from sadness to anger. “I’m really, really mad… Unbelievably mad,” she shouted from the back of the patrol car. She repeatedly claimed the towing fees would ruin her, screaming, “That’s my bread and butter!”.

Baby Shower DUI Arrest showing officers questioning Diana Carson near her damaged vehicle.
Baby Shower DUI Arrest showing officers questioning Diana Carson near her damaged vehicle.

The Arrest: Charges Against Diana Carson

Diana Carson was transported to headquarters for processing. The official arrest report lists the primary offense, though the bodycam transcript suggests additional complications regarding her license status.

ChargeSimple ExplanationPotential Penalty (US)
DUI (Alcohol or Drugs)Operating a vehicle while impaired by alcohol or substances.License suspension, fines ($600-$1000+), potential jail time, IDRC classes.
Driving While SuspendedDriving when a license has been revoked by the state.Additional fines ($500+), extended suspension, potential jail time.
Refusal to Submit (Implied)Failing to provide a proper breath sample after being arrested.Automatic license revocation (7 months to years) and heavy fines.

Note: Police records indicate Carson’s license was suspended for an “Uninsured Vehicle” violation, though she denied knowing this at the scene.

Fourth Amendment Check

The initial stop was constitutionally sound. Police did not need to pull Carson over; they responded to an accident scene where she had already struck a fixed object (the median). The visible damage (missing mirror, flat tire) provided Reasonable Suspicion that a traffic violation or accident had occurred.

Probable Cause for Arrest

To arrest Carson for the Baby Shower DUI Arrest, officers needed Probable Cause.

  1. Admission: Carson admitted to hitting the wall.
  2. Sensory Evidence: Officers documented that she “reeks like alcohol” and had an open cup in the car.
  3. Performance: She failed to follow instructions during the field sobriety tests and exhibited confusion.

Police Protocol

The officers followed standard New Jersey protocol known as “John’s Law.” This law mandates that any vehicle involved in a DUI arrest must be impounded for 12 hours to prevent the suspect from driving immediately upon release. Despite Carson’s pleas that the car was her livelihood, officers had no discretion to release it to her.

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5 FAQs connected to the charges in the Diana Carson case

Can wearing high heels or uncomfortable shoes be used as a defense against failing Field Sobriety Tests?

Yes, but it is complicated. In the Carson case, the suspect repeatedly mentioned her heels made the “Walk and Turn” test difficult. Legally, officers are trained to ask if a suspect wants to remove their shoes to ensure fairness. While defense attorneys often argue that footwear affects balance, if an officer offers the chance to remove them and the suspect refuses (insisting they are “good” in them), it weakens that defense in court.

What is “John’s Law,” and why does it mandate a 12-hour vehicle impoundment?

Carson was furious that she could not retrieve her car immediately, despite having a sober ride. This is due to “John’s Law” (in New Jersey), which mandates that police impound the vehicle of a DUI suspect for a minimum of 12 hours. The law is designed to prevent a potentially intoxicated person from accessing their vehicle and driving again immediately after being released from custody.

If I honestly didn’t know my license was suspended, can I still be charged?

Diana Carson claimed she had “no idea” her license was suspended for an uninsured vehicle violation. However, ignorance of the suspension is generally not a valid defense to the charge itself. It is the driver’s responsibility to maintain a valid address with the DMV to receive notices. While “lack of proper notice” can sometimes be argued in court to reduce penalties, the officer on the scene must enforce the status as it appears in their database.

What is “Implied Consent,” and does refusing a breathalyzer help my case?

When Carson hesitated to take the breath test, the officer read a standard “Refusal” warning. This is based on “Implied Consent” laws, which state that by simply driving on public roads, you have already consented to chemical testing if arrested for DUI. Refusing the test often triggers automatic penalties—such as mandatory license suspension—that are separate from, and sometimes harsher than, the DUI charge itself.

Can a family member be held liable if they pick up a DUI suspect from the station?

Yes. When Carson’s daughter arrived, officers explained she had to sign a “Potential Liability” form. This legal document transfers responsibility to the sober adult picking up the suspect. If that person allows the suspect to drive again within the mandatory 12-hour sobering period, the signer can face legal consequences or criminal charges for enabling a drunk driver.

Baby Shower DUI Arrest showing officers questioning Diana Carson near her damaged vehicle.
Baby Shower DUI Arrest showing officers questioning Diana Carson near her damaged vehicle.

Conclusion & Current Status

Diana Carson was processed at the Freehold Township station. While she was initially uncooperative regarding breath samples, causing officers to read the standard refusal warnings, she was eventually released from custody.

Her daughter arrived at the station to pick her up, signing a liability form ensuring Carson would not drive for the next 12 hours. Carson is scheduled to appear in court on November 19th at 8:30 a.m. to face these charges.

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Disclaimer: All suspects are presumed innocent until proven guilty in a court of law. This report is based on official police records.

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